Ksenia Borodina said that for a long time she could not tell people everything frankly, not hide anything. I was afraid to offend with a word, inadvertently offend. This caused discomfort, as it often led to quarrels and misunderstandings.
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Ksenia writes that she herself suffered from this in the first place. Then she decided that she needed to convey her thoughts to people at all costs, so that they would understand everything as it really is.
Borodina assures that it immediately became easier for her to live. But there is one point on which Ksenia focuses the attention of subscribers. In order to achieve the desired result, you need to be unconditionally confident in your position and rightness. Everything should be clearly stated and laid out point by point.
Ksenia asked the readers whether they are straightforward in their statements or avoid sharp corners in the discussion.
“I don’t know how to speak directly, I don’t want to offend and so on, but there are a million thoughts in my head and I really want to speak out, but I probably don’t have the courage,” Natalya reflects
“I used to choose words too, but now I say what I think, and not what a person wants to hear! Being engaged in servility, you can harm a person even more than offend with a sharp answer! ”, Elena is sure.
At the same time, everyone agreed that the position of a straightforward person is always clear, which means that it is more pleasant and easier to communicate with him.
